Encouragement – July 17, 2005

Every person hearing this message today needs encouragement. Whatever our age or circumstance, we all need the lift that comes from someone who cares.

Some years ago a speech teacher at a rural high school encouraged a shy student by giving him an opportunity to improve. The boy spoke with a slight stutter, if he spoke at all. Even so, the teacher invited him to compete in a speech contest. The boy was surprised but encouraged. He met with the teacher after school for weeks on end, practicing and rehearsing, writing and rewriting until he felt confident enough to speak in front of an audience. His teacher was not surprised when the boy won the contest—all this because of the power of encouragement.

We’re bolstered by words and actions that communicate another’s belief in us. Whether with heartfelt help or in a kind note, encouragement can keep us going—sometimes years after we first received it. Encouragement that makes a difference is sincere and specific. It applauds hard work, acknowledges effort, expresses appreciation, and brings hope.

Some people withhold encouragement because they’re too focused on themselves or think of what might lift to bless another. Others hold back, thinking, “She doesn’t need any encouragement. She’s already so confident,” or, “If I praise him, it’ll just feed his ego.” But sometimes those who appear to have it “all together” need encouragement just as much as anyone else. We never fully know what’s inside another’s heart, so we should always look for ways to encourage others.

Just think of how good you feel when you give or receive encouragement. Never let an opportunity to encourage someone pass you by.

 

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