In Times of Loneliness – September 12, 2004

Who among us has not felt lonely at times? A loved one dies, friends and family move away, visits come to an end, and silence is all we hear. The quiet of loneliness can be deafening.

At other times we may feel alone even when surrounded by people. Perhaps our loneliness stems from the nagging feeling that we’re not liked or appreciated. It may be that we’re discouraged. Or maybe jealousy and animosity have led us to detach ourselves from others. To one degree or another, all of us will feel lonely at some time. Whatever the reason, the continuum of loneliness can range from feelings of momentary sadness to the crushing weight of despair.

At such times, know this: there is a way to the other side of loneliness. The Lord taught that the peacemakers, the pure in heart, the meek and merciful would be blessed here and hereafter with comfort and joy.¹ Purposeful work, worthwhile endeavors, service to others, family, and friendship and fellowship with the good people of this earth will help us feel less lonely. And remember, some loneliness must be lived with. As we patiently wait upon the Lord, He will not leave us comfortless.² Loneliness is never permanent when we walk on with faith.

You’ve had such faith during your life; and you can be inspired by the examples of so many you know. A woman who has suffered great loss could brood about her loneliness and feel sorry for herself in her heartache. Instead, in time and with great willpower, she has chosen to lift and bless others. She knows that while she hasn’t changed the world, she has made a difference. She has been a friend. She has listened and been kind. You know people like her, people who reach out to God and to others while in the midst of loneliness. The Lord blesses them and each of us—for if we walk with Him, we’ll never walk alone.

 

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