Not long ago, a funeral was held for a man who lived a long and productive life. The flowers and music were beautiful; the remarks about his good life were inspiring. But some who attended were struck by something unusual: there was no mention, either in his obituary or in tributes to his name, about what he did for a living. The eulogies in his honor spoke essentially of two things: his great love for his family and the selfless service he rendered throughout his life.
His life was a testimonial of love and service: more than 65 years ago he served his country overseas defending freedom; he served his beloved wife, children, and many grandchildren with selflessness over many decades; he was a loyal friend; he generously volunteered his time in his community and church.
Yes, he worked hard professionally throughout his life; he had accomplished much in his chosen career. But when his time had come, what his family and friends remembered most about him—what they really cared about—were his love and service. The rest, in a certain sense, is forgotten in the end.
Ultimately, the same is true for all of us. We are most likely to be remembered not for plaques on the wall but for warm memories in the heart. What will be cherished is the difference we’ve made in others’ lives. What will be valued is the love and service we’ve offered. As Charles Spurgeon said: “A good character is the best tombstone. Those who loved you, and were helped by you, will remember you when forget-me-nots are withered. Carve your name on hearts, and not on marble.”1
1 John Ploughman’s Talk, or Plain Advice for Plain People (1896), 214.
Program #4180
Musical Selection:
1. When in Our Music God Is Glorified
2. Lord, Speak to Me
3. Gabriel’s Oboe, from the Mission (Organ solo)
4. Love Is Spoken Here
5. The Spoken Word
6. Each Life That Touches Ours for Good
7. The Battle of Jericho
8. O Clap Your Hands