Strong Families Vital – Sunday, July 12, 1981
Each day, we realize more and more the absolutely essential nature of the family. It is the foundation of nations. And despite rumors to the contrary, surveys indicate the family is stronger than ever. Although individual families are being challenged—and many face stressful situations—society clearly places top priority on the family as an institution.
Research reveals five main characteristics of a strong family unit: First, a sense of appreciation among family members about what they do for one another; Second, a genuine enjoyment in doing things together; Third, good communication among family members, including the ability to deal openly and constructively with conflict when it occurs; Fourth, a commitment to each other and to the family unit, where the happiness and welfare of each family member is valued by the others; Fifth, a high degree of religious orientation and participation in religious activities as expressed in a set of shared values and spiritual concerns.
Religious activity forms a strong foundation for family strength. And the most effective way to teach religion in the home is not by preaching, but by example. If we would like our children to have faith in God, then we must show faith in Him ourselves. If we want to teach the principle of prayer, then we ourselves must pray. If we want our children to have self-control and live virtuous lives, then we must provide examples for them to follow.
A close family built upon a religious foundation promotes self-esteem among its members. And self-esteem is a key factor in learning, loving and maturing. It is the key to a healthy mental attitude. A strong family promotes self-esteem in the only way self-esteem can be created—over a lifetime, a little bit each day. There are no “instant miracles” in building strong, mature individuals and citizens.
That is why the nation and the world need strong, stable homes—homes filled with love and understanding and support and unqualified acceptance. No nation can endure without good citizenship, and that kind of citizenship comes only from strong family units.
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July 12, 1981
Broadcast Number 2,708