Successful Marriage – Sunday, February 07, 1982
Despite rumors to the contrary, there has been an upsurge in recent years. More and more couples—both young and old—are entering matrimony. And an increasing number of these weddings are being performed by the clergy. These are good signs of a healthy society; they are encouraging, hopeful signs in the face of many signals that would have us think marriage is becoming unpopular. Hopefully it never will.
Marriage is perhaps the most vital of all decisions we make in life. It has the most far reaching impact. And happiness and success in marriage is not just something that happens. A good marriage must be created. It requires constant, continuous nurturing. The little things are the big things—caring, courting, giving and forgiving. Each partner must be as interested in the other as in himself or herself. That is the only basis on which love and marriage can be successful.
All too often marriages fail because partners focus on what’s wrong with their lives rather than what’s right with them. Couples must build upon the positives. If the talk is negative and full of problems, it creates a negative outlook. Conversely, when a couple constantly exchanges words of love and support, it creates an atmosphere that in itself will help to sustain and build their happiness.
Couples should safeguard each other’s self-esteem, developing a mind-set where each is tuned in to the other’s positive qualities. In a growing relationship there is no room for constant criticism, sarcasm, nagging and faultfinding.
A successful marriage brings many benefits. Couples are physically and emotionally healthier. And stability at home overcomes many of the uncertainties in life. In a 24-year study recently completed, satisfied couples identified companionship as their greatest satisfaction.
The signs are encouraging, and our continuing interest in marriage is easy to explain.
Marriage is the cornerstone of a strong family, and the family is the foundation of society.
Wherever the family flourishes in a state of vigor and unity, there will also be found a strong and sound society.
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February 07, 1982
Broadcast Number 2,738